Who Am I ? akiss2desire is a Bible Belt Blogging Bi Big Beautiful Babe who has been sharing her writing, mostly 1st person lesbian erotica, short stories, poetry, and lesbian pop culture realizations from both the experience and fantasy perspectives to an ever growing audience. I recently passed a million page views ! Thanks for the nominations for the Lezzie awards honoring best lesbian erotica on the web.

Those who have come here regularly know that I have taken a bit of a hiatus from posting and publishing, but my past work is still here and if you are new here there is much to be consumed. I am working on several stories right now and writing from the same mix of experience and fantasy that readers have told me they loved.

Those stories will be the foundation of my upcoming compilation book. Today, you get to read for free. Welcome, and I hope you stay awhile.

Sunday

Pussy Eating "Secret Weapon" Revealed For Advice - Best Technique ?

I am not so vain as to believe I really know it all about this subject. But it seems this is the question I get most often in my email. Here is the latest. I'd love your response here or on twitter @akiss2desire .

Dear akiss2desire


I've been reading your blog for about 2 years and you really get me into your stories with your writing.   I read your experiences and feel like I am there. Your words have meant a lot to me as I tried to understand and accepted my growing lesbian desires.   Please don’t ever stop writing and I hope you get your dream of getting published.   


Well, this is finally it! I just graduated from college and next weekend I am graduating in a different way.  I’m graduating from “bi curious” to “sexually experienced.”  I can’t wait !


Next weekend I am driving and spending the weekend (ssame bed) with the girl who has been my long distance girlfriend of about 6 months.  Melina is a friend from High School and after confessing our attraction and about 16 thousand texts, emails, and phone calls later, I have fallen deeply in love with her.  She loves your blog too, by the way.  As a matter of fact, we were talking about your blog the first time it evolved into phone sex.  I love to hear her orgasms.So Hot !


I’m writing you first  because I want to thank you.  I feel like I know you.   I wish I could talk to you and ask you many questions about the things you have written about.  And second, as the reality of what next weekend will be...my first time and I am her second, (not nervous) I really REALLY want to ask you how, when I go down on her, to give her the maximum pleasure.  I know you have written about just going with it, and I get that, but I am asking, pleading, and begging you to give me a lesbian oral sex secret or two so that her mind will be sufficiently blown when I perform cunnilingus on her.

We are getting together 1st week of June. Please help !


Thanks and Love


Michele     


Hi lady,



CONGRATS on your college graduation, and thank you for your gracious compliments. May you and your lady embark on a wonderful life together both emotionally and sexually.


So, you are correct ...I have written about first times alot on my blog and about oral sex techniques as well.   But I was driving home yesterday with your sweet note on my mind and decided to offer this.   I am not sure if this is an advanced technique ..and for me, it has come from simply the love of giving oral rather than thinking about the science of all this.  Having said that, what I will describe is something I have done to virtually every girl, and if I am being honest, it is like the “I can make you come anytime” secret weapon.   How about if I confess this as well ….it’s been done to me by men.   I think that may be where I learned it ...and truly, if I think about it, I don’t think its really been done much on me in this manner ...and maybe I wish it would be LOL.  


And remember...there are truly ONE MILLION ways to eat pussy and she will like almost every one of them.  What she likes best is your quest.


What I enjoy doing ..and this of course is after lots of making out and when I go down on her kissing her thighs and licking around her lips and teasing her clit with tingly tongue touches and flicks, is this technique.   I am not sure if this is in the basics or the advanced class ...and I am sure one of my readers will point out I’ve written this before.


OK ..she’s wet right ?  Really wet lets hope.   Your index finger tests this and confirms it by entering her slightly.  Trail your fingertip up her lips and towards her clit.  Above her clit, use either your thumb and index finger of your left hand, or use both thumbs, to spread the lips and expose her clit.  Some, but not all, will be fully exposed ..others still have some folds of skin nearby for you to navigate.     You don’t want to just expose her beautiful bulb,  but also, pull northward on the loose skin.  How hard should you pull up ? Not extremely hard at first ...I think I gauge what would be pulling up vigorously and back that off by about half.  However, more lift later can vastly increase her sensitivity and she will probably accept and enjoy more pulling up on the skin there after you get started.  So, lift it up the skin above her now exposed clit while touching your tongue tip to her clit and circle it...familiarize yourself with it’s size, density, and stiffness Use your tongue and then use your lips to kiss it and encircle it.   Then for a few seconds, let go of where you were pulling up while continuing to gently suck and lick.  Alternating pulling up the skin above her pussy and then releasing it while tending to her clitoris is key to this technique.  Spreading the lips to expose her clit while alternating whether its very exposed or slightly exposed is key as well.

So at this point you have the variables of lift, spread, tongue and lips.  (see why I think it might be advanced class >?)   Keeping those variable cycling for a couple of minutes is probably going to make her scream, clutch your head with her thighs and cause your hair to be pulled LOL.  But wait, there is more.

Add a finger ...or if she is dirty wet and open, add two.  NO, you don’t have to have three hands.   Just lift and spread with one hand while fingering with the other.  Finger gently ...don’t fuck her furiously ..just add something to where she needs something to fill her a bit.   

Now you are lifting, spreading, fingering, licking....and now ...this is the time to add wrapping your lips completely around her clit and suck it with your lips ...bring it in your mouth if you can ...and after maybe 10 or 30 seconds sucking...add your tongue....then let go.  Gently blow on it and repeat if she will let you and hasn’t exploded yet.  


Now its licking and sucking with medium slow tongue twirls, pulling up and spreading in variable tension above her clit, adding a finger or two inside ...and now ...are you ready?   


Stiffen your tongue, place it on her clit, and while sucking gently, move your head side to side in a “nuh uh” motion.   Go side to side a few times and then, do it with increasing rapidness.   You have her and lady, she will come for you soon now.  
Lift up, spread lips and expose clit, rapidly back and forth on her clit with your stiff tongue while gently sucking, and gently fuck her with your fingers.  Got that ?   Elementary my dear ? :)

Thats my secret weapon ….but you are not totally in control because you have to get used to whatever her reaction is ...undulating, writhing, clutching, or in one case, just about suffocated (wonderfully) by her thighs.  


I would love to hear how everything worked out after you have your weekend.  I’d love to hear.

And THANK you for your uplifting to my ego letter.   You are wonderful

Love
Brenda

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